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如何判斷一個人是否真正強大？
德國詩人歌德寫道：「沒有什麼比溫柔更強大，也沒有什麼比真正的強大更溫柔。」
他的意思是，最強大的人往往是充滿愛心、仁慈且有同理心的，他們會照顧他人，讓他們感到安全和被保護。
若認為強大是讓他人感到軟弱，那是弱者對強大的誤解。真正的強大是每天不斷地提升自我，是渴望成長，是尼采所說的「自我掌控的愉悅」。
真正的強者不追求支配他人，而是已經能夠掌控自己。沒有什麼比真正的強大更溫柔，也沒有什麼比溫柔與善良更強大。
Here's how you know that somebody is strong.
German poet Goethe, who once wrote: "There is nothing so strong as gentleness, and nothing so gentle as true strength."
What he meant is that the strongest people are loving kind and nurturing, they take care of other people, they make them feel safe and protected.
To think that strength is making other people feel weak, is itself a weak man's idea of strength.
Instead to be strong is to work on yourself each and every day.
It is a desire to grow, what Nietzsche called the delight of self mastery. And a strong person doesn't want to be master over others, but is already a master over themselves.
There is nothing so gentle as true strength, and nothing as strong as being gentle and kind.
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